Sunday, June 24, 2007

How do you love a girl?

What is the definition of love? Well, you can check on the Wikipedia and you will get this:

Love is a constellation of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness.

So, what’s that means? Frankly speaking, I have no idea. Not that I don’t know or understand what love is, just that I can’t really explain what it is. No words or sentence that I can find to truly explain it. Through out years of learning what it is, I basically found that there are 2 ways or 2 methods girls are loved. The first method is takes up the role of a teacher, father and mentor to the girl. Guide her towards as an independent carrier woman. It’s a way to help her stand up by her own. The second method is to fully give her what she wants. She doesn’t have to be independent as she can depend all her life to you. In another words, it’s like being care as a pet. She doesn’t have to worry much because you are always by her side. Either way, both are the loves that most girls wanted. Strange thing is, sometimes life is just not that perfect. When you make a girl to be independent, she might abandon you when she’s no longer needed you. When you make a girl rely too much to you, then it will become a burden. As the burden become heavier, you might start thinking of let go of it. Or she might leave you if she found someone more dependable.

What I’m trying to say is, there is no exact ways or method of winning in love. You’ll just have to go for it Things might turn out good or bad. With a little luck you might just have to go through it once to get the love of your life. If not just try it few more times and you’ll get it soon. Life is too short to be staying at the same spot. No matter what happened, the best thing that we can do is just move on. No matter what method you use to love a girl, as long as she likes it then it’s fine.

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